Where Is A Website That I Find Judgmental People That Very Critical And Are Good For Self-improvement?
October 16th, 2009 by admin | Filed under self improvement.I am looking for a website full of judgmental people that tear you apart and criticize you. The purpose of doing is that I need people like this so I can start a massive self-improvement project and needs lot of people to be critical of my lifestyle and how I do things. Through these people criticism and name-calling, I will find the tips that I need to improve my life and grow as human beings. This is very similar to confrontational thearpy in psychology.
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haha i do the same thing to improve myself! i like to criticize ppl if u want email me or add me on ym n i shall give u motivation
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Your motivation sounds great — to improve yourself in many ways.
The method of criticism, the way you describe it, is very much like punishment, which is not effective in improving your behavior long term. If you are interested in know more, feel free to email me at chuck@businesscoachchuck.com and I will help you move in a better direction.
Note; The strategies I am about to put on my answer require 2 things in order for good effects; Patience & Practice.
Practice, practice, practice. What do you do when a practice goes wrong? You practice some more. Nothing in this world is perfect.
This is a good point of view I like to use;
We are all human and we ALL have good and bad qualities. There is no existing human that is perfect. We are all ordinary and equal. Our skin holds our flesh and bones together, we have a brain, heart, liver, lung, ears, nose, mouth. What makes us different from each other really? In reality we are all equal and the same. We may lose self confidence in ourselves when we “over-exaggerate” other people’s qualities, but all each human being are just ordinary people with good and bad qualities.
Try to visualize taking out the outer skin of people, what we do get? Bones, flesh, body parts ect.
If you think negatively well then it’s time to break this habit. Why should you break this habit? This negative habit has no benefits at ALL, but instead it leaves you feeling down all the time, thinking badly about everything and at some cases where you just want to die because you feel so negative and think so negative. When we think positive we also feel positive. Thinking positive has benefits as to thinking negative has no benefits. They’re negative acts such as killing, stealing, bad use of words, ect. Those are negative acts because they harm one self and others. Thinking positive is thinking on the good side of things, thinking good, and feeling great.
Habits take time to break; thinking negative is a major horrible habit.
Repeatedly tell yourself to not think negative and because it has no benefits and it is a bad habit.
After you try to break this bad habit you must try to start a good habit which is thinking positive, thinking on the good side of things, feeling good.
So conclusion; If the act does not harm YOU or anyone else than it can be thought of as positive.
Whenever you think negative, and your trying to think positive, don’t be too hard on yourself, just tell yourself that negativity is a bad habit and it can be broken and all things take time and progress.
You hear this once and you’ll hear it again and it’s true;
” In order to love others you must first love yourself ”
So everyday when you wake up remember to love yourself to get yourself through the day.
Don’t be worried if you don’t “receive” love because that does not bring you true happiness, “giving” love brings more happiness than receiving for “ones own”. But remember in order to give love you most first love yourself because there must be a root that the love must start from, which is yourself, and then it grows and spreads onto others like a tree.
So in your case don’t worry if people don’t love you back, just remember what will truly make you happy and get you through a day is if you love yourself and love others, no need to receive as long as were giving, this is the formula of happiness.
The only love one needs in this world is oneself, the rest are just a bonus. After one has the love for oneself THEN one can truly share it with others.
This is an awesome realization I have realized through knowledge;
what I mean when I say the only love we need in this world is ourselves is because our love is the only love we can actually feel. When we see someone else and they say to us “I love you” we can’t actually feel, hear, taste, or smell their love, all we can do is take effect of it in our mind. Our mind interprets the love.
Even if someone does say “I love you” how do we know if they mean it? We can’t actually feel it, therefore other peoples love is just an illusion in our mind. The only love we need is ourselves, after this we can visualize and actually try to feel it in our hearts to give love to people because by doing this we practice giving which makes us less “self”-ish.
*Your love for yourself will be with you at all times, while other peoples love is just an illusion.
“Do not be afraid to scare people off because the only life source you ever need in order to survive is your own”